SD Dojavi
OSMRTNICE
PRETPLATA
PREMIUM
stdClass Object ( [id] => 1272020 [title] => Hrvatica rodila dva sina, sad kaže da joj majčinstvo uopće ne paše: ‘Nije ovo za mene, majčinstvo je katastrofa...‘ [alias] => hrvatica-rodila-dva-sina-sad-kaze-da-joj-majcinstvo-uopce-ne-pase-nije-ovo-za-mene-majcinstvo-je-katastrofa [catid] => 142 [published] => 1 [introtext] => [fulltext] =>

Ne uživaju svi u majčinstvu. Anonimna žena je o tom tabuu progovorila za Provjereno Nove TV. Rekla je da je društveno gledajući majčinstvo teška katastrofa.

"Nikad nije došao taj moment u kojem sam ja osjetila radost zato što sam mama", priznala je majka dvojice dječaka koji su jedini razlog zbog kojeg je odlučila sakriti svoj identitet. Još uvijek su premali da bi shvatili.

"Oni će to čuti puno, puno kasnije, ali i oni će dobiti tu neku perspektivu i informaciju jer mislim da ona ne govori ništa loše ni o meni niti o njima", smatra majka. Niti o njezinoj ljubavi prema njima, koja je neupitna. Ali ulogu majke iskreno prezire. "Da imam vremeplov, sjela bih, otišla u rikverc i rekla - ne radi to, to nije dobro za tebe. Nikad neće biti dobro za tebe", priznaje.

Završila je fakultet, imala posao, partnera, bila na pragu tridesetih. Dijete je bilo sasvim logičan nastavak priče. "Dugo sam osjećala krivnju i taj neki grč u želucu svaki put kad bih se vraćala doma. Ja sam sad već tih nekih svih skupa 6-7 godina u ovoj ulozi koja mi ne paše pa sam se i naučila snalaziti u onome što mi ne paše", opisala je.

 Iza odluke žene da nema uopće ili nema više djece, kaže psihologinja Vujčić Vračević, obično stoji puno promišljanja i poznavanje sebe, vlastitih kapaciteta, vrijednosti, želja i potreba, a to je sve samo ne sebičnost.

U prošlosti je bilo i više nego jasno zašto ljudi imaju djecu i što se od njih očekuje, kaže demograf Marin Strmota. "Djeca su tada u prošlosti bili praktički radna snaga i bili nekako sigurnost za mirovinu starijih ljudi. Živjelo se na selu, radilo se na polju i praktički je to bilo vrlo jasno. Nije da ljudi nisu voljeli djecu nego su imali i recimo to grubo - korist od djec", pojasnio je Strmota.

Danas su, strogo ekonomski gledajući, kaže Strmota, svojim roditeljima veliki trošak, a korist od djece u modernom se društvu pod navodnike izvlači na jednom sasvim drugom polju. Onom emocionalnom. Nerijetko ćete tako čuti da su djeca jedina radost i istinski smisao života.

"To je potpuno pogrešno iz perspektive djeteta jer dijete ne može doći na teret, na svijet s takvim teretom da je smisao nečijeg života. Dijete treba bit svoje, a ne alat ili instrument za opravdavanje nečijeg tuđeg života", kazala je Vujčić Vračević za Novu TV.

[video] => [gallery] => [extra_fields] => Array ( [1] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 2 [name] => Superscript Title [value] => tabu [type] => textarea [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 2 [alias] => SuperscriptTitle ) [3] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 61 [name] => Contains Infographic [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 4 [alias] => contains_infographic ) [4] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 62 [name] => Without ads [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 5 [alias] => Withoutads ) [5] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 63 [name] => Photo gallery [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 6 [alias] => Photo_gallery ) [6] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 64 [name] => Promo [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 7 [alias] => promo ) [8] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 67 [name] => Contains video [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 9 [alias] => contains_video ) [9] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 68 [name] => Premium content [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 10 [alias] => premium_content ) [10] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 69 [name] => Exclude comments [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 11 [alias] => exclude_comments ) [11] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 70 [name] => Open link in new window [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 12 [alias] => open_link_in_new_window ) [12] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 71 [name] => Horizontal crop of the main photo [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 13 [alias] => horizontal_crop_of_the_main_photo ) [13] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 73 [name] => No-index [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 15 [alias] => no_index ) [14] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 74 [name] => No-cache [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 16 [alias] => no_cache ) [15] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 77 [name] => Don't show on the front page [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 17 [alias] => dont_show_on_the_front_page ) [16] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 78 [name] => Related on bottom [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 18 [alias] => related_on_bottom ) [17] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 79 [name] => Live button [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 19 [alias] => live_button ) [26] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 87 [name] => Instant articles [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 28 [alias] => instant_articles ) [27] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 91 [name] => S preporučuje [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 29 [alias] => s_preporucuje ) [28] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 92 [name] => S voli [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 30 [alias] => s_voli ) [29] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 93 [name] => Layout with three photos [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 31 [alias] => layout_with_three_photos ) [30] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 94 [name] => Gallery in the article [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 32 [alias] => gallery_in_the_article ) [31] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 95 [name] => Required views [value] => 0 [type] => textfield [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 33 [alias] => required_views ) [32] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 96 [name] => FullHD image [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 34 [alias] => fullhd_image ) [33] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 97 [name] => City Select [value] => (0) [type] => select [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 35 [alias] => CitySelect ) [34] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 98 [name] => Paid Article [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 36 [alias] => paid_article ) ) [extra_fields_search] => tabu 0 2267 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 [created] => 2023-03-12 07:23:11 [created_by] => 3111 [created_by_alias] => VIJESTI SD [checked_out] => 0 [checked_out_time] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00 [modified] => 2023-03-12 07:45:34 [modified_by] => 0 [publish_up] => 2023-03-12 07:45:34 [publish_down] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00 [trash] => 0 [access] => 1 [ordering] => 0 [featured] => 1 [featured_ordering] => 0 [image_caption] => [image_credits] => [video_caption] => [video_credits] => [hits] => 1189 [params] => Joomla\Registry\Registry Object ( [data:protected] => stdClass Object ( [enable_css] => 1 [jQueryHandling] => 1.8remote [backendJQueryHandling] => remote [userName] => 1 [userImage] => 1 [userDescription] => 1 [userURL] => 1 [userEmail] => 0 [userFeedLink] => 1 [userFeedIcon] => 1 [userItemCount] => 30 [userItemTitle] => 1 [userItemTitleLinked] => 1 [userItemDateCreated] => 1 [userItemImage] => 1 [userItemIntroText] => 1 [userItemCategory] => 1 [userItemTags] => 1 [userItemCommentsAnchor] => 1 [userItemReadMore] => 1 [userItemOCMPlugins] => 1 [authorsListLimit] => 61 [tagItemCount] => 61 [tagItemTitle] => 1 [tagItemTitleLinked] => 1 [tagItemDateCreated] => 1 [tagItemImage] => 1 [tagItemIntroText] => 1 [tagItemCategory] => 1 [tagItemReadMore] => 1 [tagItemExtraFields] => 1 [tagOrdering] => [tagFeedLink] => 1 [tagFeedIcon] => 1 [genericItemCount] => 61 [genericItemTitle] => 1 [genericItemTitleLinked] => 1 [genericItemDateCreated] => 1 [genericItemImage] => 1 [genericItemIntroText] => 1 [genericItemCategory] => 1 [genericItemReadMore] => 1 [genericItemExtraFields] => 1 [genericFeedLink] => 1 [genericFeedIcon] => 1 [instantArticlesLimit] => 100 [instantArticlesExtraField] => 87 [instantArticlesExtraFieldON] => 2 [instantArticlesCategoriesChildren] => 0 [instantArticlesTitle] => [instantArticlesDescription] => [mainTagCategories] => Array ( [0] => 119 [1] => 396 [2] => 383 [3] => 424 [4] => 250 [5] => 251 [6] => 452 [7] => 252 [8] => 477 [9] => 253 [10] => 254 [11] => 255 [12] => 483 [13] => 256 [14] => 300 [15] => 257 [16] => 258 [17] => 260 ) [relatedItemsCategoriesChildren] => 1 [mobileJsonCustomHomepage] => 0 [mobileJsonQuoteModule] => 0 [mobileJsonWeatherModule] => 0 [mobileJsonLimit] => [mobileJsonObituary] => 0 [mobileApi2Enabled] => 1 [mobileApi2UserAgent] => OCM Mobile Articles [mobileApi2ImagePrefix] => h [mobileApi2ImageSuffix] => 1280 [mobileApi2DefaultAuthorImage] => /images/jpgs/user_face.jpg [mobileApi2TagLimit] => 50 [mobileApi2TagOrdering] => publishUp [mobileApi2TagCategories] => stdClass Object ( [mobileApi2TagCategories0] => stdClass Object ( [mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 101 [mobileApi2TagExcludeCategories] => Array ( [0] => 318 [1] => 323 [2] => 301 [3] => 406 [4] => 417 ) ) [mobileApi2TagCategories1] => stdClass Object ( [mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 328 ) [mobileApi2TagCategories2] => stdClass Object ( [mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 329 ) [mobileApi2TagCategories3] => stdClass Object ( [mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 327 ) [mobileApi2TagCategories4] => stdClass Object ( [mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 478 ) [mobileApi2TagCategories5] => stdClass Object ( [mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 494 ) ) [mobileApi2TagsSearchLimit] => 200 [mainFeedCategories] => Array ( [0] => 240 ) [feedLimit] => 50 [mostPopularFeedLimit] => 20 [feedItemImage] => 0 [feedImgSize] => S [feedItemIntroText] => 0 [feedTextWordLimit] => [feedItemFullText] => 1 [feedTextCharacterLimit] => 300 [feedItemSubtitle] => 1 [feedItemAuthor] => 0 [feedTtl] => 60 [feedDescription] => RSS feeds for Slobodna Dalmacija [feedItemTags] => 0 [feedItemVideo] => 0 [feedItemGallery] => 0 [feedItemAttachments] => 0 [feedBogusEmail] => [feedTopModules] => Array ( [0] => 105 ) [feedTopFbExcludeCategories] => Array ( [0] => 243 [1] => 353 [2] => 333 ) [introTextCleanup] => 0 [introTextCleanupExcludeTags] => [introTextCleanupTagAttr] => [fullTextCleanup] => 0 [fullTextCleanupExcludeTags] => [fullTextCleanupTagAttr] => [xssFiltering] => 0 [linkPopupWidth] => 900 [linkPopupHeight] => 600 [imagesQuality] => 100 [itemImageXS] => 100 [itemImageS] => 200 [itemImageM] => 400 [itemImageL] => 600 [itemImageXL] => 900 [itemImageGeneric] => 300 [catImageWidth] => 100 [catImageDefault] => 1 [userImageWidth] => 100 [userImageDefault] => 1 [commenterImgWidth] => 48 [onlineImageEditor] => sumopaint [imageTimestamp] => 0 [imageMemoryLimit] => [socialButtonCode] => [twitterUsername] => [facebookMetatags] => 1 [facebookImage] => Medium [comments] => 1 [commentsOrdering] => DESC [commentsLimit] => 10 [commentsFormPosition] => below [commentsPublishing] => 0 [commentsReporting] => 2 [commentsReportRecipient] => [inlineCommentsModeration] => 0 [gravatar] => 1 [antispam] => 0 [recaptchaForRegistered] => 1 [akismetForRegistered] => 1 [commentsFormNotes] => 1 [commentsFormNotesText] => [frontendEditing] => 1 [showImageTab] => 1 [showImageGalleryTab] => 1 [showVideoTab] => 1 [showExtraFieldsTab] => 1 [showAttachmentsTab] => 1 [showOCMPlugins] => 1 [sideBarDisplayFrontend] => 0 [staticURL] => https://static.slobodnadalmacija.hr [siteURL] => https://slobodnadalmacija.hr [sseHost] => sse.slobodnadalmacija.hr [lockingArticlesCategories] => Array ( [0] => 119 [1] => 424 [2] => 250 [3] => 251 [4] => 452 [5] => 252 [6] => 477 [7] => 253 [8] => 254 [9] => 255 [10] => 483 [11] => 256 [12] => 257 [13] => 258 [14] => 260 ) [lockingArticlesUnit] => YEAR [lockingArticlesQuantity] => 1 [photoGalleryExtraField] => 63 [photoGalleryExtraFieldON] => 2 [videoGalleryExtraField] => 67 [videoGalleryExtraFieldON] => 2 [tickerModules] => Array ( [0] => 408 [1] => 409 ) [gaEmail] => [mergeEditors] => 1 [sideBarDisplay] => 1 [attachmentsFolder] => [hideImportButton] => 0 [googleSearch] => 0 [googleSearchContainer] => ocmGoogleSearchContainer [OCMUserProfile] => 1 [OCMUserGroup] => 4 [redirect] => 101 [adminSearch] => simple [cookieDomain] => [gatherStatistics] => 1 [article_preview_ocm_category_id] => [taggingSystem] => 1 [lockTags] => 0 [showTagFilter] => 0 [ocmTagNorm] => 0 [ocmTagNormCase] => lower [ocmTagNormAdditionalReplacements] => [recaptcha_public_key] => marko_margeta [recaptcha_private_key] => zoey2013 [recaptcha_theme] => clean [recaptchaV2] => 1 [recaptchaOnRegistration] => 0 [akismetApiKey] => [stopForumSpam] => 0 [stopForumSpamApiKey] => [showItemsCounterAdmin] => 1 [showChildCatItems] => 1 [disableCompactOrdering] => 0 [metaDescLimit] => 150 [enforceSEFReplacements] => 0 [SEFReplacements] => À|A, Á|A, Â|A, Ã|A, Ä|A, Å|A, à|a, á|a, â|a, ã|a, ä|a, å|a, Ā|A, ā|a, Ă|A, ă|a, Ą|A, ą|a, Ç|C, ç|c, Ć|C, ć|c, Ĉ|C, ĉ|c, Ċ|C, ċ|c, Č|C, č|c, Ð|D, ð|d, Ď|D, ď|d, Đ|D, đ|d, È|E, É|E, Ê|E, Ë|E, è|e, é|e, ê|e, ë|e, Ē|E, ē|e, Ĕ|E, ĕ|e, Ė|E, ė|e, Ę|E, ę|e, Ě|E, ě|e, Ĝ|G, ĝ|g, Ğ|G, ğ|g, Ġ|G, ġ|g, Ģ|G, ģ|g, Ĥ|H, ĥ|h, Ħ|H, ħ|h, Ì|I, Í|I, Î|I, Ï|I, ì|i, í|i, î|i, ï|i, Ĩ|I, ĩ|i, Ī|I, ī|i, Ĭ|I, ĭ|i, Į|I, į|i, İ|I, ı|i, Ĵ|J, ĵ|j, Ķ|K, ķ|k, ĸ|k, Ĺ|L, ĺ|l, Ļ|L, ļ|l, Ľ|L, ľ|l, Ŀ|L, ŀ|l, Ł|L, ł|l, Ñ|N, ñ|n, Ń|N, ń|n, Ņ|N, ņ|n, Ň|N, ň|n, ʼn|n, Ŋ|N, ŋ|n, Ò|O, Ó|O, Ô|O, Õ|O, Ö|O, Ø|O, ò|o, ó|o, ô|o, õ|o, ö|o, ø|o, Ō|O, ō|o, Ŏ|O, ŏ|o, Ő|O, ő|o, Ŕ|R, ŕ|r, Ŗ|R, ŗ|r, Ř|R, ř|r, Ś|S, ś|s, Ŝ|S, ŝ|s, Ş|S, ş|s, Š|S, š|s, ſ|s, Ţ|T, ţ|t, Ť|T, ť|t, Ŧ|T, ŧ|t, Ù|U, Ú|U, Û|U, Ü|U, ù|u, ú|u, û|u, ü|u, Ũ|U, ũ|u, Ū|U, ū|u, Ŭ|U, ŭ|u, Ů|U, ů|u, Ű|U, ű|u, Ų|U, ų|u, Ŵ|W, ŵ|w, Ý|Y, ý|y, ÿ|y, Ŷ|Y, ŷ|y, Ÿ|Y, Ź|Z, ź|z, Ż|Z, ż|z, Ž|Z, ž|z, α|a, β|b, γ|g, δ|d, ε|e, ζ|z, η|h, θ|th, ι|i, κ|k, λ|l, μ|m, ν|n, ξ|x, ο|o, π|p, ρ|r, σ|s, τ|t, υ|y, φ|f, χ|ch, ψ|ps, ω|w, Α|A, Β|B, Γ|G, Δ|D, Ε|E, Ζ|Z, Η|H, Θ|Th, Ι|I, Κ|K, Λ|L, Μ|M, Ξ|X, Ο|O, Π|P, Ρ|R, Σ|S, Τ|T, Υ|Y, Φ|F, Χ|Ch, Ψ|Ps, Ω|W, ά|a, έ|e, ή|h, ί|i, ό|o, ύ|y, ώ|w, Ά|A, Έ|E, Ή|H, Ί|I, Ό|O, Ύ|Y, Ώ|W, ϊ|i, ΐ|i, ϋ|y, ς|s, А|A, Ӑ|A, Ӓ|A, Ә|E, Ӛ|E, Ӕ|E, Б|B, В|V, Г|G, Ґ|G, Ѓ|G, Ғ|G, Ӷ|G, y|Y, Д|D, Е|E, Ѐ|E, Ё|YO, Ӗ|E, Ҽ|E, Ҿ|E, Є|YE, Ж|ZH, Ӂ|DZH, Җ|ZH, Ӝ|DZH, З|Z, Ҙ|Z, Ӟ|DZ, Ӡ|DZ, Ѕ|DZ, И|I, Ѝ|I, Ӥ|I, Ӣ|I, І|I, Ї|JI, Ӏ|I, Й|Y, Ҋ|Y, Ј|J, К|K, Қ|Q, Ҟ|Q, Ҡ|K, Ӄ|Q, Ҝ|K, Л|L, Ӆ|L, Љ|L, М|M, Ӎ|M, Н|N, Ӊ|N, Ң|N, Ӈ|N, Ҥ|N, Њ|N, О|O, Ӧ|O, Ө|O, Ӫ|O, Ҩ|O, П|P, Ҧ|PF, Р|P, Ҏ|P, С|S, Ҫ|S, Т|T, Ҭ|TH, Ћ|T, Ќ|K, У|U, Ў|U, Ӳ|U, Ӱ|U, Ӯ|U, Ү|U, Ұ|U, Ф|F, Х|H, Ҳ|H, Һ|H, Ц|TS, Ҵ|TS, Ч|CH, Ӵ|CH, Ҷ|CH, Ӌ|CH, Ҹ|CH, Џ|DZ, Ш|SH, Щ|SHT, Ъ|A, Ы|Y, Ӹ|Y, Ь|Y, Ҍ|Y, Э|E, Ӭ|E, Ю|YU, Я|YA, а|a, ӑ|a, ӓ|a, ә|e, ӛ|e, ӕ|e, б|b, в|v, г|g, ґ|g, ѓ|g, ғ|g, ӷ|g, y|y, д|d, е|e, ѐ|e, ё|yo, ӗ|e, ҽ|e, ҿ|e, є|ye, ж|zh, ӂ|dzh, җ|zh, ӝ|dzh, з|z, ҙ|z, ӟ|dz, ӡ|dz, ѕ|dz, и|i, ѝ|i, ӥ|i, ӣ|i, і|i, ї|ji, Ӏ|i, й|y, ҋ|y, ј|j, к|k, қ|q, ҟ|q, ҡ|k, ӄ|q, ҝ|k, л|l, ӆ|l, љ|l, м|m, ӎ|m, н|n, ӊ|n, ң|n, ӈ|n, ҥ|n, њ|n, о|o, ӧ|o, ө|o, ӫ|o, ҩ|o, п|p, ҧ|pf, р|p, ҏ|p, с|s, ҫ|s, т|t, ҭ|th, ћ|t, ќ|k, у|u, ў|u, ӳ|u, ӱ|u, ӯ|u, ү|u, ұ|u, ф|f, х|h, ҳ|h, һ|h, ц|ts, ҵ|ts, ч|ch, ӵ|ch, ҷ|ch, ӌ|ch, ҹ|ch, џ|dz, ш|sh, щ|sht, ъ|a, ы|y, ӹ|y, ь|y, ҍ|y, э|e, ӭ|e, ю|yu, я|ya [ocmSef] => 0 [ocmSefLabelCat] => content [ocmSefLabelTag] => tag [ocmSefLabelUser] => author [ocmSefLabelSearch] => search [ocmSefLabelDate] => date [ocmSefLabelItem] => 0 [ocmSefLabelItemCustomPrefix] => [ocmSefInsertItemId] => 1 [ocmSefItemIdTitleAliasSep] => dash [ocmSefUseItemTitleAlias] => 1 [ocmSefInsertCatId] => 1 [ocmSefCatIdTitleAliasSep] => dash [ocmSefUseCatTitleAlias] => 1 [show_page_heading] => 0 [categories] => Array ( [0] => 142 ) [exclude_from_group_by_subcategories] => 0 [menu-anchor_css] => nav__link [menu_text] => 1 [menu_show] => 1 [menu-meta_description] => Najnovije vijesti iz Hrvatske. [menu-meta_keywords] => vijesti, zanimljivosti, hrvatska [secure] => 0 [page_title] => Hrvatska [page_description] => SiteMeta Description [page_rights] => [robots] => [inheritFrom] => 0 [num_leading_items] => 2 [num_leading_columns] => 1 [leadingImgSize] => Large [num_primary_items] => 4 [num_primary_columns] => 2 [primaryImgSize] => Medium [num_secondary_items] => 4 [num_secondary_columns] => 1 [secondaryImgSize] => Small [num_links] => 4 [num_links_columns] => 1 [linksImgSize] => XSmall [catCatalogMode] => 0 [catFeaturedItems] => 1 [catOrdering] => publishUp [catPagination] => 2 [catPaginationResults] => 1 [catTitle] => 1 [catTitleItemCounter] => 1 [catDescription] => 1 [catImage] => 1 [catFeedLink] => 0 [catFeedIcon] => 0 [subCategories] => 1 [subCatColumns] => 2 [subCatTitle] => 1 [subCatTitleItemCounter] => 1 [subCatDescription] => 1 [subCatImage] => 1 [catItemTitle] => 1 [catItemTitleLinked] => 1 [catItemFeaturedNotice] => 0 [catItemAuthor] => 1 [catItemDateCreated] => 1 [catItemRating] => 0 [catItemImage] => 1 [catItemIntroText] => 1 [catItemExtraFields] => 0 [catItemHits] => 0 [catItemCategory] => 1 [catItemTags] => 1 [catItemAttachments] => 0 [catItemAttachmentsCounter] => 0 [catItemVideo] => 0 [catItemVideoAutoPlay] => 0 [catItemImageGallery] => 0 [catItemDateModified] => 0 [catItemReadMore] => 1 [catItemCommentsAnchor] => 1 [catItemOCMPlugins] => 1 [itemDateCreated] => 1 [itemTitle] => 1 [itemFeaturedNotice] => 1 [itemAuthor] => 1 [itemFontResizer] => 0 [itemPrintButton] => 0 [itemEmailButton] => 1 [itemSocialButton] => 1 [itemVideoAnchor] => 1 [itemImageGalleryAnchor] => 1 [itemCommentsAnchor] => 1 [itemRating] => 0 [itemImage] => 1 [itemImgSize] => Large [itemImageMainCaption] => 1 [itemImageMainCredits] => 1 [itemIntroText] => 0 [itemFullText] => 1 [itemExtraFields] => 1 [itemDateModified] => 1 [itemHits] => 0 [itemCategory] => 0 [itemTags] => 1 [itemAttachments] => 1 [itemAttachmentsCounter] => 1 [itemVideo] => 1 [itemVideoAutoPlay] => 0 [itemVideoCaption] => 1 [itemVideoCredits] => 1 [itemImageGallery] => 0 [itemNavigation] => 0 [itemComments] => 1 [itemTwitterButton] => 1 [itemFacebookButton] => 1 [itemGooglePlusOneButton] => 1 [itemAuthorBlock] => 0 [itemAuthorImage] => 0 [itemAuthorDescription] => 0 [itemAuthorURL] => 1 [itemAuthorEmail] => 0 [itemAuthorLatest] => 0 [itemAuthorLatestLimit] => 5 [itemRelated] => 1 [itemRelatedLimit] => 2 [itemRelatedTitle] => 1 [itemRelatedCategory] => 1 [itemRelatedImageSize] => Medium [itemRelatedIntrotext] => 0 [itemRelatedFulltext] => 0 [itemRelatedAuthor] => 0 [itemRelatedMedia] => 1 [itemRelatedImageGallery] => 1 [itemOCMPlugins] => 1 [recaptcha] => ) [initialized:protected] => 1 [separator] => . ) [metadesc] => [metadata] => robots= author= title=Hrvatica rodila dva sina, sad kaže da joj majčinstvo uopće ne paše: 'Nije ovo za mene, majčinstvo je katastrofa...' [metakey] => majčinstvo [plugins] => {"incptvocmimagegalleryIGParameters":"default","incptvocmimagegalleryocmIGposition":"OcmAfterDisplayContent","incptvocmimagegalleryocmIGtheme":"CameraSlideshow","incptvocmimagegalleryImages":["\/images\/slike\/2023\/03\/12\/22048258.jpg"],"incptvocmimagegalleryImageTitles":["\/Shutterstock\/Ilustracija"],"incptvocmimagegalleryImageDescriptions":[""],"incptvocmimagegalleryImageFocus":["50:50"],"incptvocmimagegalleryImageDimensions":[{"size0":"1920x1280","hd_22048258_1920.jpg":"1920x1080","k_22048258_1280.jpg":"1280x1280","k_22048258_1024.jpg":"1024x1024","k_22048258_640.jpg":"640x640","k_22048258_480.jpg":"480x480","k_22048258_340.jpg":"340x340","k_22048258_220.jpg":"220x220","o_22048258_1280.jpg":"1280x853","o_22048258_1024.jpg":"1024x682","o_22048258_640.jpg":"640x426","o_22048258_480.jpg":"480x320","o_22048258_340.jpg":"340x226","o_22048258_220.jpg":"220x146","h_22048258_1280.jpg":"1280x854","h_22048258_1024.jpg":"1024x683","h_22048258_640.jpg":"640x427","h_22048258_480.jpg":"480x320","h_22048258_340.jpg":"340x227","h_22048258_220.jpg":"220x147","pp_22048258_1280.jpg":"1280x1628","pp_22048258_1024.jpg":"1024x1303","pp_22048258_640.jpg":"640x814","pp_22048258_480.jpg":"480x611","pp_22048258_340.jpg":"340x432","pp_22048258_220.jpg":"220x280"}]} [language] => * [multi_author] => 0 [type_id] => 100 [category] => TableOCMCategory Object ( [id] => 142 [name] => Hrvatska [alias] => hrvatska [description] => [parent] => 119 [extraFieldsGroup] => 9 [published] => 1 [image] => [access] => 1 [ordering] => 1 [params] => {"inheritFrom":"119","catMetaDesc":"","catMetaKey":"","catMetaRobots":"","catMetaAuthor":"","theme":"","num_leading_items":"2","num_leading_columns":"1","leadingImgSize":"Large","num_primary_items":"4","num_primary_columns":"2","primaryImgSize":"Medium","num_secondary_items":"4","num_secondary_columns":"1","secondaryImgSize":"Small","num_links":"4","num_links_columns":"1","linksImgSize":"XSmall","catCatalogMode":"0","catFeaturedItems":"1","catOrdering":"publishUp","catPagination":"2","catPaginationResults":"1","catTitle":"1","catTitleItemCounter":"1","catDescription":"1","catImage":"1","catFeedLink":"0","catFeedIcon":"0","subCategories":"1","subCatColumns":"2","subCatOrdering":"","subCatTitle":"1","subCatTitleItemCounter":"1","subCatDescription":"1","subCatImage":"1","itemImageXS":"","itemImageS":"","itemImageM":"","itemImageL":"","itemImageXL":"","catItemTitle":"1","catItemTitleLinked":"1","catItemFeaturedNotice":"0","catItemAuthor":"1","catItemDateCreated":"1","catItemRating":"0","catItemImage":"1","catItemIntroText":"1","catItemIntroTextWordLimit":"","catItemExtraFields":"0","catItemHits":"0","catItemCategory":"1","catItemTags":"1","catItemAttachments":"0","catItemAttachmentsCounter":"0","catItemVideo":"0","catItemVideoWidth":"","catItemVideoHeight":"","catItemAudioWidth":"","catItemAudioHeight":"","catItemVideoAutoPlay":"0","catItemImageGallery":"0","catItemImageGalleryWidth":"","catItemImageGalleryHeight":"","catItemDateModified":"0","catItemReadMore":"1","catItemCommentsAnchor":"1","catItemOCMPlugins":"1","itemDateCreated":"1","itemTitle":"1","itemFeaturedNotice":"1","itemAuthor":"1","itemFontResizer":"0","itemPrintButton":"0","itemEmailButton":"1","itemSocialButton":"1","itemVideoAnchor":"1","itemImageGalleryAnchor":"1","itemCommentsAnchor":"1","itemRating":"0","itemImage":"1","itemImgSize":"Large","itemImageMainCaption":"1","itemImageMainCredits":"1","itemIntroText":"0","itemFullText":"1","itemExtraFields":"0","itemDateModified":"1","itemHits":"0","itemCategory":"0","itemTags":"1","itemAttachments":"1","itemAttachmentsCounter":"1","itemVideo":"1","itemVideoWidth":"","itemVideoHeight":"","itemAudioWidth":"","itemAudioHeight":"","itemVideoAutoPlay":"0","itemVideoCaption":"1","itemVideoCredits":"1","itemImageGallery":"0","itemImageGalleryWidth":"","itemImageGalleryHeight":"","itemNavigation":"0","itemComments":"1","itemTwitterButton":"1","itemFacebookButton":"1","itemGooglePlusOneButton":"1","itemAuthorBlock":"0","itemAuthorImage":"0","itemAuthorDescription":"0","itemAuthorURL":"0","itemAuthorEmail":"0","itemAuthorLatest":"0","itemAuthorLatestLimit":"5","itemRelated":"0","itemRelatedLimit":"5","itemRelatedTitle":"1","itemRelatedCategory":"0","itemRelatedImageSize":"0","itemRelatedIntrotext":"1","itemRelatedFulltext":"0","itemRelatedAuthor":"0","itemRelatedMedia":"0","itemRelatedImageGallery":"0","itemOCMPlugins":"1"} [trash] => 0 [plugins] => {"customparams_created":"2019-02-21 11:58:02","customparams_modified":"2019-02-21 11:58:02","customparams_videobg":"","customparams_countdown_module":"","customparams_search_template":""} [language] => * [container] => 0 [container_name] => [_tbl:protected] => #__ocm_categories [_tbl_key:protected] => id [_tbl_keys:protected] => Array ( [0] => id ) [_db:protected] => JDatabaseDriverMysqli_Exabyte Object ( [name] => mysqli [serverType] => mysql [connection:protected] => mysqli Object ( [affected_rows] => 1 [client_info] => mysqlnd 5.0.12-dev - 20150407 - $Id: 7cc7cc96e675f6d72e5cf0f267f48e167c2abb23 $ [client_version] => 50012 [connect_errno] => 0 [connect_error] => [errno] => 0 [error] => [error_list] => Array ( ) [field_count] => 18 [host_info] => 127.0.0.1 via TCP/IP [info] => [insert_id] => 0 [server_info] => 5.5.30 [server_version] => 50530 [stat] => Uptime: 7635718 Threads: 2 Questions: 1619628049 Slow queries: 4809883 [sqlstate] => 00000 [protocol_version] => 10 [thread_id] => 110996518 [warning_count] => 0 ) [nameQuote:protected] => ` [nullDate:protected] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00 [_database:JDatabaseDriver:private] => sdproductiondb [count:protected] => 54 [cursor:protected] => [debug:protected] => [limit:protected] => 0 [log:protected] => Array ( ) [timings:protected] => Array ( ) [callStacks:protected] => Array ( ) [offset:protected] => 0 [options:protected] => Array ( [driver] => mysqli_exabyte [host] => 127.0.0.1 [user] => proxy_user_front02 [password] => b3hX5DrKwjx6 [database] => sdproductiondb [prefix] => sk_ [select] => 1 [port] => 6033 [socket] => ) [sql:protected] => JDatabaseQueryMysqli Object ( [offset:protected] => 0 [limit:protected] => 0 [db:protected] => JDatabaseDriverMysqli_Exabyte Object *RECURSION* [sql:protected] => [type:protected] => select [element:protected] => [select:protected] => JDatabaseQueryElement Object ( [name:protected] => SELECT [elements:protected] => Array ( [0] => category.* [1] => IF(ISNULL(container.catid),false,true) AS container [2] => container.name AS container_name [3] => SEFURL_cr.menuItemID AS sefurl_belonging_menu_item ) [glue:protected] => , ) [delete:protected] => [update:protected] => [insert:protected] => [from:protected] => JDatabaseQueryElement Object ( [name:protected] => FROM [elements:protected] => Array ( [0] => `#__ocm_categories` AS `category` ) [glue:protected] => , ) [join:protected] => Array ( [0] => JDatabaseQueryElement Object ( [name:protected] => LEFT JOIN [elements:protected] => Array ( [0] => #__ocm_containers AS container ON category.id = container.catid ) [glue:protected] => , ) [1] => JDatabaseQueryElement Object ( [name:protected] => LEFT JOIN [elements:protected] => Array ( [0] => #__ocm_sefurl_category_menu_relation AS SEFURL_cr ON category.id = SEFURL_cr.categoryID ) [glue:protected] => , ) ) [set:protected] => [where:protected] => JDatabaseQueryElement Object ( [name:protected] => WHERE [elements:protected] => Array ( [0] => `category`.`id` = '240' ) [glue:protected] => AND ) [group:protected] => [having:protected] => [columns:protected] => [values:protected] => [order:protected] => [autoIncrementField:protected] => [call:protected] => [exec:protected] => [union:protected] => [unionAll:protected] => [selectRowNumber:protected] => ) [tablePrefix:protected] => sk_ [utf:protected] => 1 [utf8mb4:protected] => 1 [errorNum:protected] => 0 [errorMsg:protected] => [transactionDepth:protected] => 0 [disconnectHandlers:protected] => Array ( ) [ocmConfig] => Array ( ) ) [_trackAssets:protected] => [_rules:protected] => [_locked:protected] => [_autoincrement:protected] => 1 [_observers:protected] => JObserverUpdater Object ( [aliases:protected] => Array ( ) [observers:protected] => Array ( ) [doCallObservers:protected] => 1 ) [_columnAlias:protected] => Array ( ) [_jsonEncode:protected] => Array ( ) [_errors:protected] => Array ( ) [year_lookup] => 0 [link] => /vijesti/hrvatska ) [additional_categories] => Array ( [0] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 142 [name] => Hrvatska [alias] => hrvatska [parent] => 119 [published] => 1 [trash] => 0 [link] => /vijesti/hrvatska ) ) [link] => /vijesti/hrvatska/hrvatica-rodila-dva-sina-sad-kaze-da-joj-majcinstvo-uopce-ne-pase-nije-ovo-za-mene-majcinstvo-je-katastrofa-1272020 [printLink] => /vijesti/hrvatska/hrvatica-rodila-dva-sina-sad-kaze-da-joj-majcinstvo-uopce-ne-pase-nije-ovo-za-mene-majcinstvo-je-katastrofa-1272020?tmpl=component&print=1 [tags] => Array ( [0] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 353327 [name] => majčinstvo [published] => 1 [section] => [subsection] => [weight] => [created] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00 [main_article_id] => 0 [alias] => majcinstvo [link] => /tag/majcinstvo ) ) [imageXSmall] => [imageSmall] => [imageMedium] => [imageLarge] => [imageXLarge] => [extraFields] => stdClass Object ( [SuperscriptTitle] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 2 [name] => Superscript Title [value] => tabu [type] => textarea [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 2 [alias] => SuperscriptTitle ) [contains_infographic] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 61 [name] => Contains Infographic [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 4 [alias] => contains_infographic ) [Withoutads] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 62 [name] => Without ads [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 5 [alias] => Withoutads ) [Photo_gallery] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 63 [name] => Photo gallery [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 6 [alias] => Photo_gallery ) [promo] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 64 [name] => Promo [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 7 [alias] => promo ) [contains_video] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 67 [name] => Contains video [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 9 [alias] => contains_video ) [premium_content] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 68 [name] => Premium content [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 10 [alias] => premium_content ) [exclude_comments] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 69 [name] => Exclude comments [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 11 [alias] => exclude_comments ) [open_link_in_new_window] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 70 [name] => Open link in new window [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 12 [alias] => open_link_in_new_window ) [horizontal_crop_of_the_main_photo] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 71 [name] => Horizontal crop of the main photo [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 13 [alias] => horizontal_crop_of_the_main_photo ) [no_index] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 73 [name] => No-index [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 15 [alias] => no_index ) [no_cache] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 74 [name] => No-cache [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 16 [alias] => no_cache ) [dont_show_on_the_front_page] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 77 [name] => Don't show on the front page [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 17 [alias] => dont_show_on_the_front_page ) [related_on_bottom] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 78 [name] => Related on bottom [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 18 [alias] => related_on_bottom ) [live_button] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 79 [name] => Live button [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 19 [alias] => live_button ) [instant_articles] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 87 [name] => Instant articles [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 28 [alias] => instant_articles ) [s_preporucuje] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 91 [name] => S preporučuje [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 29 [alias] => s_preporucuje ) [s_voli] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 92 [name] => S voli [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 30 [alias] => s_voli ) [layout_with_three_photos] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 93 [name] => Layout with three photos [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 31 [alias] => layout_with_three_photos ) [gallery_in_the_article] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 94 [name] => Gallery in the article [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 32 [alias] => gallery_in_the_article ) [required_views] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 95 [name] => Required views [value] => 0 [type] => textfield [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 33 [alias] => required_views ) [fullhd_image] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 96 [name] => FullHD image [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 34 [alias] => fullhd_image ) [CitySelect] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 97 [name] => City Select [value] => (0) [type] => select [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 35 [alias] => CitySelect ) [paid_article] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 98 [name] => Paid Article [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 36 [alias] => paid_article ) ) [attachments] => Array ( ) [cleanTitle] => Hrvatica rodila dva sina, sad kaže da joj majčinstvo uopće ne paše: ‘Nije ovo za mene, majčinstvo je katastrofa...‘ [num_of_authors] => 0 [author] => Joomla\CMS\User\User Object ( [isRoot:protected] => [id] => 3111 [name] => Diana Barbarić [username] => diana-barbari [email] => diana-barbari@sd.hr [password] => $2y$10$TgGal197j7nS31typ4yMh.ij7cGZinZUyNYE5yXdu6k7UZUh/oru6 [password_clear] => [block] => 0 [sendEmail] => 0 [registerDate] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00 [lastvisitDate] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00 [activation] => [params] => [groups] => Array ( [2] => 2 ) [guest] => 0 [lastResetTime] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00 [resetCount] => 0 [requireReset] => 0 [_params:protected] => Joomla\Registry\Registry Object ( [data:protected] => stdClass Object ( ) [initialized:protected] => [separator] => . ) [_authGroups:protected] => [_authLevels:protected] => [_authActions:protected] => [_errorMsg:protected] => [userHelper:protected] => Joomla\CMS\User\UserWrapper Object ( ) [_errors:protected] => Array ( ) [otpKey] => [otep] => [link] => /autor/diana-barbaric-3111 [profile] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 1629 [gender] => m [description] => [image] => [url] => [group] => 1 [plugins] => ) [avatar] => https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/b5bdeb0a848ebe05496b9ad281421f26?s=100&default=https%3A%2F%2Fslobodnadalmacija.hr%2Fcomponents%2Fcom_ocm%2Fimages%2Fplaceholder%2Fuser.png ) [numOfComments] => 0 [mainImage] => https://static.slobodnadalmacija.hr/images/slike/2023/03/12/22048258.jpg [galleryCount] => 1 [hasImage] => 1 [mainImageAuthor] => /Shutterstock/Ilustracija [mainImageDesc] => [popup_gallery] => Array ( [0] => stdClass Object ( [src] => https://static.slobodnadalmacija.hr/images/slike/2023/03/12/22048258.jpg [title] => /Shutterstock/Ilustracija ) ) [bgPosition] => [text] => {OCMSplitter}

Ne uživaju svi u majčinstvu. Anonimna žena je o tom tabuu progovorila za Provjereno Nove TV. Rekla je da je društveno gledajući majčinstvo teška katastrofa.

"Nikad nije došao taj moment u kojem sam ja osjetila radost zato što sam mama", priznala je majka dvojice dječaka koji su jedini razlog zbog kojeg je odlučila sakriti svoj identitet. Još uvijek su premali da bi shvatili.

"Oni će to čuti puno, puno kasnije, ali i oni će dobiti tu neku perspektivu i informaciju jer mislim da ona ne govori ništa loše ni o meni niti o njima", smatra majka. Niti o njezinoj ljubavi prema njima, koja je neupitna. Ali ulogu majke iskreno prezire. "Da imam vremeplov, sjela bih, otišla u rikverc i rekla - ne radi to, to nije dobro za tebe. Nikad neće biti dobro za tebe", priznaje.

Završila je fakultet, imala posao, partnera, bila na pragu tridesetih. Dijete je bilo sasvim logičan nastavak priče. "Dugo sam osjećala krivnju i taj neki grč u želucu svaki put kad bih se vraćala doma. Ja sam sad već tih nekih svih skupa 6-7 godina u ovoj ulozi koja mi ne paše pa sam se i naučila snalaziti u onome što mi ne paše", opisala je.

 Iza odluke žene da nema uopće ili nema više djece, kaže psihologinja Vujčić Vračević, obično stoji puno promišljanja i poznavanje sebe, vlastitih kapaciteta, vrijednosti, želja i potreba, a to je sve samo ne sebičnost.

U prošlosti je bilo i više nego jasno zašto ljudi imaju djecu i što se od njih očekuje, kaže demograf Marin Strmota. "Djeca su tada u prošlosti bili praktički radna snaga i bili nekako sigurnost za mirovinu starijih ljudi. Živjelo se na selu, radilo se na polju i praktički je to bilo vrlo jasno. Nije da ljudi nisu voljeli djecu nego su imali i recimo to grubo - korist od djec", pojasnio je Strmota.

Danas su, strogo ekonomski gledajući, kaže Strmota, svojim roditeljima veliki trošak, a korist od djece u modernom se društvu pod navodnike izvlači na jednom sasvim drugom polju. Onom emocionalnom. Nerijetko ćete tako čuti da su djeca jedina radost i istinski smisao života.

"To je potpuno pogrešno iz perspektive djeteta jer dijete ne može doći na teret, na svijet s takvim teretom da je smisao nečijeg života. Dijete treba bit svoje, a ne alat ili instrument za opravdavanje nečijeg tuđeg života", kazala je Vujčić Vračević za Novu TV.

[event] => stdClass Object ( [BeforeDisplay] => [AfterDisplay] => [AfterDisplayTitle] => [BeforeDisplayContent] => [AfterDisplayContent] => [OCMBeforeDisplay] => [OCMAfterDisplay] => [OCMAfterDisplayTitle] => [OCMBeforeDisplayContent] => [OCMAfterDisplayContent] =>
/Shutterstock/Ilustracija
[OCMUserDisplay] => [OCMCommentsCounter] => [OCMCommentsBlock] => ) [jcfields] => Array ( ) [image] => [imageWidth] => 600 [comments] => Array ( ) [absoluteURL] => https://slobodnadalmacija.hr/vijesti/hrvatska/hrvatica-rodila-dva-sina-sad-kaze-da-joj-majcinstvo-uopce-ne-pase-nije-ovo-za-mene-majcinstvo-je-katastrofa-1272020 [emailLink] => /component/mailto/?tmpl=component&template=site&link=589884b02c0891d25ec9b8bb71f69a9312c90769 [twitterURL] => http://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=Hrvatica+rodila+dva+sina%2C+sad+ka%C5%BEe+da+joj+maj%C4%8Dinstvo+uop%C4%87e+ne+pa%C5%A1e%3A+%E2%80%98Nije+ovo+za+mene%2C+maj%C4%8Dinstvo+je+katastrofa...%E2%80%98&url=https%3A%2F%2Fslobodnadalmacija.hr%2Fvijesti%2Fhrvatska%2Fhrvatica-rodila-dva-sina-sad-kaze-da-joj-majcinstvo-uopce-ne-pase-nije-ovo-za-mene-majcinstvo-je-katastrofa-1272020 [socialLink] => https%3A%2F%2Fslobodnadalmacija.hr%2Fvijesti%2Fhrvatska%2Fhrvatica-rodila-dva-sina-sad-kaze-da-joj-majcinstvo-uopce-ne-pase-nije-ovo-za-mene-majcinstvo-je-katastrofa-1272020 )
Array ( [1] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 2 [name] => Superscript Title [value] => tabu [type] => textarea [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 2 [alias] => SuperscriptTitle ) [3] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 61 [name] => Contains Infographic [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 4 [alias] => contains_infographic ) [4] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 62 [name] => Without ads [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 5 [alias] => Withoutads ) [5] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 63 [name] => Photo gallery [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 6 [alias] => Photo_gallery ) [6] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 64 [name] => Promo [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 7 [alias] => promo ) [8] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 67 [name] => Contains video [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 9 [alias] => contains_video ) [9] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 68 [name] => Premium content [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 10 [alias] => premium_content ) [10] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 69 [name] => Exclude comments [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 11 [alias] => exclude_comments ) [11] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 70 [name] => Open link in new window [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 12 [alias] => open_link_in_new_window ) [12] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 71 [name] => Horizontal crop of the main photo [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 13 [alias] => horizontal_crop_of_the_main_photo ) [13] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 73 [name] => No-index [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 15 [alias] => no_index ) [14] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 74 [name] => No-cache [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 16 [alias] => no_cache ) [15] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 77 [name] => Don't show on the front page [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 17 [alias] => dont_show_on_the_front_page ) [16] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 78 [name] => Related on bottom [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 18 [alias] => related_on_bottom ) [17] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 79 [name] => Live button [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 19 [alias] => live_button ) [26] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 87 [name] => Instant articles [value] => ON [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 28 [alias] => instant_articles ) [27] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 91 [name] => S preporučuje [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 29 [alias] => s_preporucuje ) [28] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 92 [name] => S voli [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 30 [alias] => s_voli ) [29] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 93 [name] => Layout with three photos [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 31 [alias] => layout_with_three_photos ) [30] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 94 [name] => Gallery in the article [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 32 [alias] => gallery_in_the_article ) [31] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 95 [name] => Required views [value] => 0 [type] => textfield [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 33 [alias] => required_views ) [32] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 96 [name] => FullHD image [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 34 [alias] => fullhd_image ) [33] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 97 [name] => City Select [value] => (0) [type] => select [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 35 [alias] => CitySelect ) [34] => stdClass Object ( [id] => 98 [name] => Paid Article [value] => OFF [type] => radio [group] => 9 [published] => 1 [ordering] => 36 [alias] => paid_article ) )
StoryEditorOCM
Hrvatskatabu

Hrvatica rodila dva sina, sad kaže da joj majčinstvo uopće ne paše: ‘Nije ovo za mene, majčinstvo je katastrofa...‘

Piše VIJESTI SD
12. ožujka 2023. - 08:45
22048258
PREMIUM
/Shutterstock/Ilustracija

Ne uživaju svi u majčinstvu. Anonimna žena je o tom tabuu progovorila za Provjereno Nove TV. Rekla je da je društveno gledajući majčinstvo teška katastrofa.

"Nikad nije došao taj moment u kojem sam ja osjetila radost zato što sam mama", priznala je majka dvojice dječaka koji su jedini razlog zbog kojeg je odlučila sakriti svoj identitet. Još uvijek su premali da bi shvatili.

"Oni će to čuti puno, puno kasnije, ali i oni će dobiti tu neku perspektivu i informaciju jer mislim da ona ne govori ništa loše ni o meni niti o njima", smatra majka. Niti o njezinoj ljubavi prema njima, koja je neupitna. Ali ulogu majke iskreno prezire. "Da imam vremeplov, sjela bih, otišla u rikverc i rekla - ne radi to, to nije dobro za tebe. Nikad neće biti dobro za tebe", priznaje.

Završila ...

#MAJČINSTVO
Želite li dopuniti temu ili prijaviti pogrešku u tekstu?
13. svibanj 2024 18:52